While the quality of the novel/movie series Fifty Shades of Grey is certainly up for debate, it is hard to deny the massive influence they have had on modern culture.
Obviously, the novels and subsequent films were not the first to depict BDSM, particularly bondage, in fiction, yet they are certainly responsible for bringing it into the mainstream. We seen it ourselves, with sales of BDSM toys and bondage gear sky rocketing alongside sales of the books.
In fact, it is safe to say that many people would never have had tried bondage - or lots of other kinky stuff - without Fifty Shades of Grey. For that reason alone, it gets a big thumbs up from us here at SeriouslySensual.
So, if you are one of the many people that is looking to experience all the fun and excitement of bondage, you have come to the right place. Our bondage shop has all the bondage equipment you could ever need to get started, with products to suit all your wildest kinks and fantasies.
Of course, you can only get so far with buying new BDSM sex toys and bondage restraints - you need to know how to use the first!
Just a quick search online of bondage positions shows just how much variety there is. There are countless positions for each partner to enjoy, any of which could be to your liking. While these may seem initially daunting, you will quickly learn the ropes after a few tries - practice makes perfect!
Being tied to bed missionary style is a classic sex position is ideal for bondage beginners. One person lies down missionary position and is restrained to the bed via the headboard or bedposts. The other starts with some teasing/foreplay before initiating the sex, taking on a dominant role while their partner is restrained.
Another interesting position is the rough rider. As the name suggests, this focuses on sensation play, namely some minor pain. It isn’t too extreme, with just some rough friction on the friction using fingernails or teeth.
Females get on top, start riding into a pleasurable rhythm, then ask the partner to rough the skin around the breasts, thighs, or any sweet spot where you love being touched. They can also use some soft biting around the nipple, neck, or ears - it’s all about mixing the pleasure of sex with a bit of roughness.
If you love doggy style sex, then we have some awesome BDSM toys to make this even more enjoyable. Whoever is on all fours simply puts on a blindfold and lets their partner take charge. By losing vision you submit control to your partner, while not being able to see helps to build excitement and anticipation.
Before you buy any BDSM sex toys, remember to talk to your partner. Communication is essential for a good BDSM experience, so make sure to talk openly about what you both want, consenting to the use of any toys before you buy.
Furthermore, once you buy some toys make sure to try them out in a non-sex environment. For instance, if you buy a spanking paddle or leather whip, practice using it on a pillow to get the right movements and force.
If buying bondage restraints like sex cuffs or bed ties, practice putting them and removing them. Also, make sure you both know how to quickly remove them in case of an accident or emergency - it always helps to be prepared!
So, whatever bondage toys you buy, make sure you do some research and practice before using them for real. Now let’s look at some of the best bondage equipment for tied up sex in the bedroom:
This pink and black collar and leash set lets you experience classic bondage gear that is perfect for some roleplaying fun in the bedroom. The collar and leash combo lets you define clear submissive and dominant roles, which are a core component of BDSM, not to mention being incredibly arousing.
Of course, with restraints around the neck you need to be careful, so this BDSM gear is designed with beginners in mind. The collar is padded for extra comfort and simple to adjust. Simply attach the leash to the D-ring and start leading the wearer around the bedroom for some kinky roleplaying like nothing else.
It is common for people that have tried bondage to want to incorporate other aspects of BDSM into their sex lives. Impact play is one of the most popular options in this regard, with BDSM toys like spanking paddles perfect for this.
Featuring a rounded head and spacious impact surface this sex paddle is another great option for people experimenting with impact play. It comes with a soft leather side that is ideal for gentler impact play, while the studded sign is suitable for anyone looking to take things up a level!
Nipple clamps may appear as an extreme BDSM sex toy but they are actually quite mild compared to some of the more hardcore gear used. Nipple clamps provide a nice form of sensation play, so when combined with bondage you get to experience a sensory overload while being dominated.
These press clamps are suitable for all experience levels, with the adjustable setting let you choose the right pressure for your or your partners comfort level. The chain connecting the clamps also offers subtle sensory stimulation - try using a blindfold for a sensory overload!
Why settle for just one piece of bondage equipment when you can buy several BDSM toys at once! This bondage set has everything you need to explore the world of BDSM, making it easy to find out what turns you on the most - you might find all of it does the trick!
You can start with the bondage ties, which are soft satin restraints that are great for getting tied to bed with. If you want to up things from there, you can use the blindfold for a spot of sensory play - use this with massage oil, massage candle, and a tickler for a sensory overload!
Find yourself liking bondage ties and want to up your game? Then look no further than this incredible bed restraint kit that includes bondage handcuffs, sex cuffs for the ankles, and for being tied to the bed (or other furniture).
While it may seem like an advanced piece of bondage gear, it is surprisingly easy to use and comes with instructions for how to safely use it. Once you are comfortable using the sex restraints, try throwing on the blindfold for sensory stimulation like never before!